A Life-Changing Dialogue with the Divine There are books that inform you.There are books that comfort you.And then there are books that completely rewire your perception of life. For me, Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch was that book. Not just one volume, but the whole trilogy — Book 1, 2, and 3 — each one meeting… Read More 📖 Learning from Conversations with God (Books 1–3):
Let’s be clear: You shouldn’t. When abuse becomes physical, it becomes dangerous. Life-threatening. Non-negotiable. I speak from lived experience — not theory, not speculation.And I’m here to tell you the hard truth many don’t want to say out loud: Physical abuse doesn’t just “happen.” It escalates. Do not wait for it to “get better.” Do not wait for… Read More ❌ How Many Times Should You Forgive Someone Who Has Physically Abused You?
Why the most attractive man is the one who listens, learns, and grows with you. Let’s get something straight:Being right all the time isn’t attractive.Being emotionally present is.Being able to say “I got that wrong” is. There is nothing more magnetic than a man who can: This is the kind of man who leads not with bravado, but with emotional intelligence. 🧠 From… Read More 🤍 Emotional Intelligence is the New Sexy
✨With a Good Man, You Never Have to Ask…✨They just know.And no, it’s not witchcraft. It’s emotional intelligence, genuine care, and a little thing called paying attention. Let’s be real — the good ones study you like their favorite subject. They don’t just listen to what you say — they observe, they notice, they remember. (Yes, Karen, he… Read More ✨With a Good Man, You Never Have to Ask…✨
“Who am I if everything I built was a performance?”This is the quiet, aching question that often surfaces when someone begins to confront a life shaped by deception—not just of others, but of the self. Fractured identity is not always born from what was done to us. Sometimes, it emerges from what we did to survive, to be loved,… Read More Fractured Identity: When You’ve Been Living a Lie
Forgiveness is often misunderstood — especially when it comes to the people who walked away.Those who could have stayed, but didn’t.Those who saw your pain and chose silence.Those who had a seat at your table, in your life, in your heart — and then left you to pick up the pieces alone. Forgiveness, in these cases, is… Read More 💔 Forgiving the Ones Who Left: A Psychological Reflection on Abandonment and Healing
A Consistent Life Doesn’t Need Editing In a world full of masks, manipulation, and people rewriting their own narratives to avoid accountability, there is something quietly revolutionary about choosing to live in truth — especially when it’s hard. As therapists, survivors, or simply people striving to live in alignment, we learn this:Truth doesn’t waver. It… Read More ✨ “Come from Love. Stand in Truth.”
There comes a moment in every healing journey when the fog lifts, and you can finally see the road ahead with clarity. Not just the emotional healing — but the practical closure. The physical, tangible unravelling of what was once a life entangled with someone who only gave chaos, not care. This is my moment.And this… Read More “What’s Next for Me” — The Final Chapter of Closure
Most people are remembered for their kindness. Their generosity. Their laugh. Maybe even their cooking. Not him. He will be remembered for…The Spreadsheet. Yes, that spreadsheet. Not a spreadsheet.The Spreadsheet.Capital T. Capital S.A monument to obsession. A tribute to control. A shrine to every cent ever spent—by you, of course, not him. 🧾 A Legacy in Rows and Columns For over… Read More “The Spreadsheet: A Love Story Between a Man and His Excel File”
✨ Honesty or Lies — You Decide ✨The cost of protecting appearances vs. standing in truth. Behind closed doors, the masks often slip. He pretended to be fair, to have integrity, to be “above all that.” But when his nephew married — a same-sex couple deeply in love and committing their lives to one another — he… Read More ✨ Honesty or Lies — You Decide
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 