Lust is primarily physical and chemical. It’s driven by sexual attraction, the desire for physical closeness, and often, an idealized version of the other person. Key Traits of Lust: 🧠 Neuroscience of Lust: In the brain, lust activates the ventral tegmental area (VTA) and the nucleus accumbens—parts of the reward circuit. It’s about pleasure, novelty, and pursuit. Lust can override logic and… Read More 💘 LUST: The Spark That Ignites
Lately, something in my life is shifting.It’s not loud or dramatic — it’s quiet, soulful, and deeply real.Not forced. Not chased. Just… unfolding. There was a time I surrounded myself with people who didn’t reflect my values, who couldn’t meet me in faith, truth, or emotional honesty. I didn’t always see it then, but I… Read More When Your Soul Shifts, So Does the Circle Around You
Last night, something unexpected happened. Out of the blue, someone who has quietly followed my Facebook for many years reached out. We had never spoken before — and yet, in a moment when the storm around me felt relentless, her message was like a calm wind through the chaos. We spoke about God, about truth, and about integrity.Not… Read More Divine Timing: A Thank You to the Beautiful Soul Who Reached Out
There’s a saying: “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.”But let me take it one step further—What was meant to destroy me is actually what’s waking me up. 🧠 Every attempt to gaslight me sharpened my clarity.💔 Every betrayal cracked me open to deeper self-love.🚫 Every silent treatment reminded me of what I will never tolerate again.🎭 Every manipulation… Read More 💥 “What He Doesn’t Know Is That He’s Building Me”While he’s busy trying to break me down, the opposite is happening…
There’s a name for what happens when you want something to be true so badly that your brain bends the facts to protect the belief. It’s called motivated reasoning. It’s not ignorance.It’s not stupidity.It’s the brain’s attempt to protect you from emotional pain, from disillusionment, from the devastation of facing something — or someone — who’s not who you thought… Read More 🧠💭 Motivated Reasoning: When We Believe What We Want, Not What Is 💭🧠
“Excuse him, he has Tourette’s Syndrome.”I used to say that.Not because he had it. But because I needed something — anything — to explain the chaos, the rudeness, the outbursts. I needed a socially acceptable way to protect myself from the embarrassment he caused. When he snapped at waiters.When he made crude jokes at inappropriate times.When he… Read More “Excuse him, he has Tourette’s Syndrome.”
A Life-Changing Dialogue with the Divine There are books that inform you.There are books that comfort you.And then there are books that completely rewire your perception of life. For me, Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch was that book. Not just one volume, but the whole trilogy — Book 1, 2, and 3 — each one meeting… Read More 📖 Learning from Conversations with God (Books 1–3):
Let’s be clear: You shouldn’t. When abuse becomes physical, it becomes dangerous. Life-threatening. Non-negotiable. I speak from lived experience — not theory, not speculation.And I’m here to tell you the hard truth many don’t want to say out loud: Physical abuse doesn’t just “happen.” It escalates. Do not wait for it to “get better.” Do not wait for… Read More ❌ How Many Times Should You Forgive Someone Who Has Physically Abused You?
Why the most attractive man is the one who listens, learns, and grows with you. Let’s get something straight:Being right all the time isn’t attractive.Being emotionally present is.Being able to say “I got that wrong” is. There is nothing more magnetic than a man who can: This is the kind of man who leads not with bravado, but with emotional intelligence. 🧠 From… Read More 🤍 Emotional Intelligence is the New Sexy
✨With a Good Man, You Never Have to Ask…✨They just know.And no, it’s not witchcraft. It’s emotional intelligence, genuine care, and a little thing called paying attention. Let’s be real — the good ones study you like their favorite subject. They don’t just listen to what you say — they observe, they notice, they remember. (Yes, Karen, he… Read More ✨With a Good Man, You Never Have to Ask…✨
