If your abuser shows up — step-by-step plan (Spain-adapted)

Immediate safety (first 60 seconds) If the person attempts to force entry4. Lock doors and move to a safe room. If they enter without consent (trespassing / allanamiento de morada)7. Call 112/091/062 immediately and say: If violence or threat occurs8. Prioritize physical safety. Get yourself and any children/pets out if you can do so safely. If escape is unsafe,… Read More If your abuser shows up — step-by-step plan (Spain-adapted)

Safety + empowerment + vigilance + recovery.

Just because you’re feeling great, fantastic, renewed… don’t lose sight of the truth:your abusers will not be feeling the same. And that’s exactly why you stay grounded, steady, and smart. Healing does not mean becoming careless.Freedom does not mean forgetting what you survived.Confidence does not mean abandoning caution. This is the chapter where you rise… Read More Safety + empowerment + vigilance + recovery.

Real Love Doesn’t Confuse You: The Neuroscience of Emotional Clarity

If someone really wants you, you’ll know.It won’t be a guessing game.It won’t be mixed signals.It won’t be head-spinning mind games or emotional exhaustion.It won’t be on and off, hot then cold, kind when they want something and distant when they don’t.It won’t be detachment when you set boundaries or the silent treatment when they… Read More Real Love Doesn’t Confuse You: The Neuroscience of Emotional Clarity