If you’re reading this, I want you to know something right from the start: you are not alone, and there is nothing wrong with you. Living in a situation where love, safety, and peace are missing takes a toll on the mind, heart, and nervous system. I’ve worked with many brave individuals who were told for years… Read More Supporting You: When and How to Leave Domestic Violence — You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

Deciding whether to warn your abuser’s new partner about past abuse, especially something as severe as strangulation, is a deeply personal and complex decision. It involves weighing your safety, emotional well-being, and the potential impact on the new partner. Here’s a comprehensive look at the considerations involved: Understanding the Risks Strangulation is one of the… Read More Warning

Strangulation is not just an act of violence — it is one of the clearest predictors of escalating abuse and potential homicide in domestic violence cases. Survivors often underestimate the seriousness of this form of assault, sometimes due to the absence of visible injuries. But make no mistake: strangulation is a form of power and… Read More Strangulation: When It’s Time to Leave — What Comes Next

“Money is no object.”“I know people who will handle this.”“Others in the family have connections.” If these phrases sound familiar, you are not alone — and you are not paranoid. These are classic escalation tactics used by an abuser who feels their grip on you slipping. When control is lost, threats become their weapon of last… Read More 🚨 The Most Dangerous Time: When the Abuser Loses Control 🚨