Someone who attempts strangulation is showing a very particular psychology: 🚨 How Dangerous Are They? Extremely. Here’s why strangulation is considered a red flag for homicide: This isn’t about a “bad temper.” It’s about someone willing to put their hands around another person’s neck and squeeze — knowing they could end a life in seconds. That… Read More 🧠 The Mindset Behind Strangulation
Abuse doesn’t always start with something that looks “dangerous.” It can creep in slowly—controlling behaviour, put-downs, silent treatments, financial restrictions—before escalating into real threats to safety. The shift from “abuse” to “dangerous abuse” is often when the abuser begins crossing invisible lines of safety, and it can happen gradually or suddenly. Here are some key… Read More Dangerous
In Europe, femicide—the gender-based killing of women by men—remains a deeply concerning issue, though the rates and patterns vary across countries. While the United Kingdom reports that a woman is killed by a man every three days, European statistics present a broader and more complex picture.OBC Transeuropa+2OBC Transeuropa+2 🇪🇺 European Overview In 2023, 749 women were… Read More Gender-based killing of women by men
It’s shocking what comes to light decades later. I was told by a reliable source that he once broke his ex-wife’s arm. Decades later, I experienced him attempt the very same thing with me. Abuse isn’t always a “moment in time”—for many abusers, it’s a repeating pattern, a dark thread that runs through their relationships… Read More Breaking the Silence on Generational Abuse
✅ If You Are the Victim or a Complainant: 🛡️ Important: If you’re involved in a domestic abuse, harassment, or coercive control case, you may have a right to know enough to protect yourself, but still not access full details unless required for your testimony or court process. 🚫 If You Are Not Directly Involved in the Case: If you’re… Read More 🔍 Will You Be Told What Is on the Phone After a Forensic Search?
When you’re walking into a courtroom not just with documents, but with the weight of everything you’ve endured — the manipulation, the threats, the gaslighting, the financial deceit — you are not just preparing a legal case. You are walking the long and lonely road of reclaiming your truth. This is not just about proving… Read More Preparing for Court When the Truth Is Heavy: A Survivor’s Guide to Documenting Hidden Abuse and Financial Manipulation
The psychological report, the documented escalation, and the pattern of stalking and emotional manipulation — there are clear and validated indicators that you are in danger. This is not a theoretical risk. This is a serious, evidence-supported situation that meets the legal and psychological criteria for stalking, post-separation abuse, and coercive control — all of which are recognized… Read More 🚨 What Your Psychological Report Is Telling You
Living with escalating danger, especially from someone with a known history of abuse and untreated mental health issues, is terrifying — and you do not have to endure it alone or in silence. When abuse escalates — especially in the volatile period of divorce or separation — your safety and psychological well-being are the top priority. The… Read More Living with escalating danger
A truth-telling post for anyone who has endured the unbearable. The short answer? No. Not really. Not in the same way.Not once you’ve woken up.Not once you’ve tasted safety.Not once you’ve learned what love is supposed to feel like. Sure, your body might return to the house.You might second-guess yourself.You might freeze, comply, explain away their rage, their… Read More 💔 Could You Live With Abuse Again — After You’ve Survived It?
If someone breaks a restraining order and enters your home, it is a serious criminal offense — not only a violation of a court order, but potentially also trespassing, breaking and entering, and harassment or domestic violence, depending on the context. This situation is urgent, dangerous, and emotionally traumatic. You may feel frightened, powerless, and shaken — but you have rights, and there are… Read More Trespassing, breaking and entering
