1. Why Courts Deny Appeals to Drop Restraining Orders Courts rarely remove restraining orders lightly because the safety of the protected person is paramount. Before considering removal, they typically review: Courts are not punitive against the person restricted; they are preventive, focusing on reducing risk. 2. Why Dropping a Restraining Order Can Be Dangerous Even if someone seems… Read More Rejected Appeals
In Spain, the VioGén system (Sistema de Seguimiento Integral en los casos de Violencia de Género) is a government‑run system designed to help protect people — mostly women — who have reported gender‑based violence(violencia de género). It isn’t an app you turn on, but a coordinated protection and monitoring system used by police and other authorities once a case is reported. sistemaviogen.ses.mir.es+1… Read More What the VioGén System Is
One of the reasons many survivors don’t speak out sooner is simple:they already know they won’t be supported. In some families, the abuse isn’t a secret.It has been seen before.Hints have been dropped.Incidents have been witnessed, minimised, or quietly explained away. Instead of intervening, the family: This silence isn’t neutral.It’s a choice. Why This Keeps… Read More When Families Know About Abuse — and Choose Silence
More survivors of domestic abuse died by suicide last year than were killed directly by a partner. This stark statistic from the Home Office exposes a truth that is still widely overlooked:domestic abuse kills — even when there are no visible injuries. Coercive control and psychological abuse work by stripping away a person’s autonomy, identity,… Read More Abuse Doesn’t Have to End in Murder to Be Fatal
Abuse doesn’t take a holiday — in fact, it often intensifies during holidays like Christmas or birthdays. Many victims think that leaving home, going on a trip, or being away from daily stress might protect them, but abuse thrives in isolation. Abusers exploit distance from friends, family, and familiar environments to gain control. After 32 Christmases of living… Read More Abuse doesn’t take a holiday
In Spain, the system roughly equivalent to the UK’s DASH risk assessment is called VIOGEN (“Sistema de Seguimiento Integral en los casos de Violencia de Género” – Integral Monitoring System for Gender Violence). It is managed by the Spanish Ministry of the Interior and coordinated with police, courts, and social services. 1. Purpose of VIOGEN VIOGEN is used for all cases of… Read More VIOGEN: Domestic Violence Risk Assessment System in Spain
When a domestic violence survivor is considered high-risk, Spanish law allows courts and police to impose enhanced monitoring measures to prevent further abuse and ensure safety. These measures go beyond standard restraining orders. 1. Risk Assessment 2. Reporting Obligations 3. Electronic Monitoring 4. Police Supervision 5. Protective Benefits for Survivors 6. Implementation Bottom Line:In Spain, if a domestic… Read More Police and Court Monitoring in High-Risk Domestic Violence Cases (Spain)
Even after a divorce, survivors of abuse may require ongoing protection. Spanish law provides temporary legal tools to ensure safety, protect children, and prevent harassment. 1. Restraining Orders (Orden de Protección) 2. Custody and Visitation Protections 3. Housing Protections 4. Financial Safeguards 5. Communication and Harassment Restrictions 6. Police or Court Monitoring 7. How to Request… Read More Protective Measures After Divorce & in Domestic Violence Cases (Medidas Cautelares)
Just because you’re feeling renewed, stronger, happier… NEVER forget this truth:your abusers are not feeling what you feel. When you rise, when you heal, when you reclaim your life —some abusers become unpredictable, resentful, or destabilised. That’s why healing and safety must walk side by side. This isn’t fear.This is strategy.This is survivor intelligence.This is how you… Read More New chapter
In the early 1970s, domestic violence was not recognised by law or society as a crime. It was considered a “private matter.” Women like Jenny had nowhere to go. Police often refused to intervene, and families urged women to “go back home.” But in 1971, one woman — Erin Pizzey — decided that silence was no longer… Read More The Birth of Refuge: How One House Changed Everything
