When the Truth Doesn’t Match the Tears: The Weaponization of Illness

When the Truth Doesn’t Match the Tears: The Weaponization of Illness There are few things more devastating than hearing someone say they are dying of cancer. It evokes immediate empathy, sorrow, and compassion. It’s a powerful declaration—one that stops people in their tracks and shifts the way we view everything around that person. But what… Read More When the Truth Doesn’t Match the Tears: The Weaponization of Illness

It’s Time for the Truth: 32 Years, 15 Pages, and a Lifetime of Silence Broken

It’s Time for the Truth: 32 Years, 15 Pages, and a Lifetime of Silence Broken In five days, I will release something that has taken me over three decades to live through—and a lifetime’s worth of courage to write. Fifteen pages. Thirty-two years. The truth. This isn’t just a document. It’s not just words on… Read More It’s Time for the Truth: 32 Years, 15 Pages, and a Lifetime of Silence Broken

The Weight of Lies: When Vindictiveness Backfires and Truth Prevails

What you’ve endured—being pushed, manipulated, and lied about, even under oath—is beyond unjust, yet your decision to stand firm in truth and faith is powerful. Let’s shape that resilience and raw honesty into a compelling article that not only tells your story but speaks to anyone who’s ever been wronged by someone who hides behind lies… Read More The Weight of Lies: When Vindictiveness Backfires and Truth Prevails

Greed

Where money has not only been the focal point of the relationship but is also being weaponized during what’s likely one of the hardest times of your life. When a partner seems to fixate on money, especially in the context of separation or divorce, it can be profoundly isolating and demoralizing. It’s especially painful if… Read More Greed

Greed or Opportunism in Divorce: How It Manifests and Why

Ignoring Past Contributions: A partner exhibiting greedy behavior may discount or even erase the financial and emotional contributions their spouse made over the years. This can extend to a refusal to acknowledge sacrifices like selling a home or contributing financially to shared goals, including family vacations, household expenses, or investments.… Read More Greed or Opportunism in Divorce: How It Manifests and Why

Alienation Tactics: Creating Isolation for Control

1. Spreading False Information:

One of the most common ways to alienate a family member is by spreading false information. This might involve claiming that another sibling or relative has ill intentions, is neglectful, or is not worthy of the parent’s trust or affection. The manipulator might exaggerate minor misunderstandings or fabricate stories entirely, painting others in an unfavorable light. In some cases, the manipulator may even make accusations of abuse, neglect, or incompetence, which can create a false narrative and sow distrust among family members. Over time, these false stories can fracture relationships, making it difficult for the parent or elder to differentiate truth from fiction.… Read More Alienation Tactics: Creating Isolation for Control