I’m not attracted to confusion, inconsistency, or emotional games. I’m drawn to a man whose actions align with his words. A man who communicates clearly, makes time, and shows his interest without hesitation. If you want me, I’ll know — because you’ll show it. I don’t chase, guess, or compete for attention. My nervous system… Read More Confusion
How many people lose good relationships because of avoidant attachment? Far more than most realise. Psychology estimates that 20–30% of adults have an avoidant attachment style, and many more show avoidant behaviours under emotional stress. These patterns quietly erode relationships that are otherwise healthy, loving, and repairable. Why avoidant attachment sabotages connection (neuroscience): When intimacy… Read More Speaking up
People who say they’re not bothered but keep checking, watching, or monitoring are often experiencing an internal conflict. From a neuroscience perspective: The brain’s threat and attachment systems (amygdala + dopamine circuits) stay activated when something unresolved matters. Even when someone consciously claims indifference, the brain still seeks information to regain a sense of control,… Read More Internal conflict
Grateful for whatever life brings.Grateful for clear vision, faith, truth, integrity, strength, resilience, love, passion, and empathy.These are the real gifts. ✨
Deciding where I want to live and what I want to do with my life — now that I am free to go wherever I please and choose what truly matters to me. It’s deeply liberating to realise I can travel anywhere in the world and build an abuse-free life grounded in peace, choice, and self-respect. Travel… Read More Abuse free life
Always taught to appreciate what I had and to enjoy every moment — never taking anything or anyone for granted. And science backs this up. From a neuroscience perspective, gratitude and presence activate brain networks linked to wellbeing and emotional regulation. When we consciously appreciate what we have, we counter hedonic adaptation — the brain’s… Read More Living in the now
Enjoying a truly well-deserved holiday.It’s been so many years since I could experience time away free from abuse — free from moaning about money, free from “no, we can’t afford it,” free from being told I was spoilt, free from insults, control, or the silent treatment. My mother always taught me to go for the best and if you couldn’t… Read More Free from abuse
Do the things that matter while you still can. Don’t wait for a someday that may never come. Health, movement, laughter, love — these are gifts for now. Share them with someone who appreciates the simple joy of living, and enjoy every step.
The past may have tested me, but it didn’t take my capacity for gratitude. I honour the journey and cherish the good times.
Sometimes the people who matter most are the ones who remember the small things.If someone can’t find the kindness to wish you a happy birthday or a peaceful Christmas, it may simply mean they’re not meant to walk closely with you.Kindness costs nothing, and it always finds its way back.
