1. Attitude & Ego
- Believes they are inherently special or superior.
- Thinks rules don’t apply to them (e.g., grooming, hygiene, emotional effort).
- Dismissive of partner’s feelings, opinions, or needs.
- Overestimates how much others admire or desire them.
2. Physical Appearance & Self-Care
- Shabby, wrinkled, or dirty clothing; threadbare underwear.
- Untidy hair, unshaven, dirty feet/nails.
- Stains on teeth, poor dental hygiene.
- Neglects physical health: weight gain, sedentary, “always ill” complaints.
3. Grooming & Hygiene Patterns
- Rare or inconsistent bathing, grooming, or personal upkeep.
- Haircuts and facial hair neglected.
- Shoes, socks, and clothing often worn beyond repair.
4. Sexual & Emotional Disengagement
- Low libido or avoidance of intimacy.
- Minimal effort to be affectionate or supportive emotionally.
- May expect admiration without reciprocating love or care.
5. Financial & Practical Behavior
- Stingy, controlling, or mean with money.
- Avoids contributing fairly to household responsibilities.
- Relies on partner for management of life logistics while minimizing personal effort.
6. Psychological Patterns
- Delusions of universal admiration: “all women still fancy me.”
- Overconfidence in charm despite neglect or meanness.
- Narcissistic traits: self-centered, entitled, dismissive, defensive when confronted.
- Uses arrogance as a shield for insecurities or aging.
7. Relationship Impact
- Partner often feels unseen, unappreciated, or burdened.
- Emotional neglect and physical apathy can erode intimacy and respect.
- Over time, arrogance + neglect often leads to resentment, distance, and conflict.
⚠️ Summary
- Multiple signs across categories = serious red flags.
- Behavior often reflects deeper personality patterns rather than temporary stress or laziness.
- Recognizing these patterns early helps protect emotional health and set boundaries.
