Dating men 65+ has been quite the sociological study. Many seem entirely absorbed in their own stories — to the point they don’t notice they haven’t asked a single question. That’s usually when my eyes begin to glaze over. 😌

One gentleman even perfected the art of changing the subject the moment I began to share one of my own adventures — which was impressive in a way, if not exactly romantic.

Some people become so inwardly focused that they forget conversation is meant to be a dance, not a monologue. Whether it’s illness, loneliness, emotional immaturity, or simply long-standing habits, the result is the same: connection quietly evaporates.

True chemistry lives in curiosity, listening, and reciprocity — without those, even the most fascinating life stories lose their sparkle. ✨