In Spain, the types of abuse — hiding surveillance evidence, withholding SD cards, controlling finances, stealing mail, and attempting to lock someone out of their own home — aren’t just harmful behaviours; many of them can be criminal offences or serious factors in domestic violence cases when they form part of a pattern of control or coercion. Here’s how this is generally treated from a legal perspective in Spain:
⚖️ 1. Coercive Control and Coercion
Spain’s legal system recognizes coercion (coacción) as a crime under the Penal Code.
This includes preventing someone from doing what they are legally entitled to do or forcing them to do something against their will through intimidation, threats, or violence. If non‑physical behaviours systematically restrict autonomy, they can still qualify as coercion.
- This can lead to imprisonment (6 months to 3 years) or fines.
- Courts may also restrict parental authority or other civil rights if minors or vulnerable people are involved.
So even things like financial control or threats to confine someone can be treated as an abuse‑related offence if they amount to coercive domination.
⚖️ 2. Domestic Violence and Gender Violence Framework
Spain has specialized courts (Juzgados de Violencia sobre la Mujer) and protective legal frameworks for domestic violence, known broadly as violencia de género. These laws allow authorities to:
- Quickly issue protection orders (orden de protección)
- Remove a perpetrator from the family home
- Restrict communication with the victim
- Facilitate urgent police action
The system is designed to treat ongoing patterns of psychological, economic, and technological abuse as seriously as physical violence when they form part of domestic abuse.
⚖️ 3. Financial Abuse and Property Crimes
Withholding bank cards, hiding money, or controlling access to funds may fall under several criminal and civil offences:
- Theft or fraud: Taking financial instruments or money without consent.
- Economic abuse (abuso económico): A form of domestic violence when part of a pattern of control, especially if used to limit autonomy. This can be pursued in court both criminally and within family law proceedings (e.g., divorce, custody).
- Interference with property or privacy: Stealing or tampering with private mail can be criminalized as theft and violation of privacy protections.
The combination of coercive control and financial manipulation is increasingly recognized as serious domestic abuse.
⚖️ 4. Evidence and Surveillance
Withholding or deleting recordings, SD cards, security footage, or other evidence can be legally significant:
- It may be considered evidence tampering or obstruction, depending on the circumstances and intent.
- Courts treating coercive control and domestic violence consider digital and surveillance evidence as part of establishing a pattern of abuse.
This means such actions can weaken a defence and support protection measures or criminal charges.
⚖️ 5. Family and Civil Consequences
Even if criminal charges are not brought or proven beyond a reasonable doubt:
- Family courts can use documented patterns of abuse (including psychological, financial, and coercive behavior) when deciding:
- Custody and visitation
- Parental authority
- Division of property
- Protective care arrangements for children or dependent adults
- Civil remedies (e.g., restraining orders, asset protection, emergency access to funds) are often available and separate from criminal proceedings.
This means the pattern of abuse alone can influence major legal outcomes, even without a specific charge for each act.
🛡️ Practical Legal Reality
- Importantly, in Spain the law does not require visible physical violence for authorities to act — patterns of coercion, intimidation, economic control, and psychological abuse can trigger intervention and legal protections.
- Specialized gender violence courts are intended to treat patterns of abuse as urgent matters.
📌 Summary
In Spain, behaviours like:
- withholding evidence or cameras
- controlling finances
- stealing mail
- trying to lock someone out of their own home
…if part of a continuing pattern of abuse or coercion, are legally significant and can be treated as:
✔ Coercion or domestic violence
✔ Theft or fraud
✔ Property / privacy violation
✔ Evidence tampering
✔ Civil factors in family law (custody, protection orders)
and can lead to criminal charges, protective orders, and civil remedies.

