When family or others try to normalize abuse or exploitation of children, it is not normal, and underage children must be protected.
Key points to keep in mind:
1. Children need protection, not normalization
- Any sexual activity involving minors is illegal and abusive, regardless of whether the family downplays it.
- Dismissing or minimizing abuse often allows the behavior to continue and leaves children unprotected.
2. Legal obligations
- In most countries, including Spain, the UK, and South Africa, adults are legally required to report suspected child exploitation or abuse.
- Evidence like letters, messages, or other communications should be passed directly to the relevant authorities(police, Guardia Civil, Policía Nacional, or child protection services).
3. Emotional reality
- It’s normal to feel anger, fear, confusion, or betrayal when a family tries to downplay abuse.
- Support from trusted professionals (therapists, social workers, or child protection organizations) is essential.
4. Steps you can take
- Preserve evidence safely, without sharing publicly.
- Report immediately to authorities trained to handle underage exploitation.
- Protect children’s safety by removing them from harmful situations if possible.
- Seek professional support to cope with the trauma and navigate the legal process.
