1. Recognize the Duty
- Child safety comes first: Legal and ethical duties to report abuse do not change based on familial ties.
- Mandatory reporting laws apply to teachers, social workers, medical professionals, and anyone legally required to protect children.
2. Legal Obligations
- In Spain: Article 189 of the Penal Code criminalizes possession, production, and distribution of child pornography.
- Failing to report suspected abuse can lead to criminal liability and civil consequences.
- Reporting protects the child and ensures investigation by competent authorities.
3. Steps to Take
- Preserve Evidence Securely
- Letters, messages, call logs, or other documentation should be stored safely.
- Avoid sharing evidence with anyone other than authorities.
- Contact Competent Authorities
- Policía Nacional – Unidad de Delitos Telemáticos: https://www.policia.es
- Guardia Civil – Unidad de Investigación Tecnológica: https://www.guardiacivil.es
- Child protection services for immediate risk situations.
- Seek Professional Support
- Therapists trained in trauma for guidance on coping with the emotional burden.
- Legal counsel to ensure reporting is done safely and accurately.
- Protect Yourself and the Child
- Limit direct contact with the abuser if possible.
- Authorities can implement safety measures (restraining orders, supervised visits, etc.).
4. Emotional Support Resources
- Therapy / Counseling: Trauma-informed therapy for dealing with betrayal and family conflict.
- Support Groups: Networks for survivors of abuse or family-perpetrated trauma.
- Hotlines:
- Spain: Teléfono ANAR de Ayuda al Niño: 900 202 010
- International: Child Helpline International: https://www.childhelplineinternational.org
5. Key Principles
- Reporting is not betrayal; it is a responsibility to protect vulnerable children.
- Family loyalty does not override child safety.
- Protecting the child may involve difficult emotional decisions, but it is legally and ethically required.
