You can see it the moment they walk in — chest puffed out, shoulders back, loud voice, strong handshake.
They look confident, but something feels off. The eyes give it away — tense, scanning, defensive.
What you’re really seeing isn’t confidence at all. It’s overcompensation — the mind’s way of hiding fear or insecurity by acting dominant. Psychologists call it an inferiority complex; neuroscientists call it a defensive display.
When the brain feels threatened, the amygdala (our fear center) activates the body’s “fight” response — expanding posture, raising tone, trying to appear powerful. It’s ancient survival wiring: look bigger to stay safe.
True confidence feels different — calm, grounded, open.
It doesn’t need to prove or perform. It’s quiet strength, not loud fear.
So the next time someone puffs up to look powerful, remember:
Sometimes the strongest people don’t stand taller — they stand softer.
“Real confidence whispers. False confidence shouts.”
with a soft, minimalist background?
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