Rehabilitation is not typically a direct part of a restraining order, but it can be ordered by a judge as part of sentencing or additional legal measures—especially if the abuser has a history of violence, harassment, or substance abuse.

When Can Rehabilitation Be Ordered?

• As a Condition of Probation
  If the abuser violates the restraining order but is not sent to jail, the court may require them to attend anger management, domestic violence programs, or substance abuse rehab as part of probation.
• As Part of a Diversion Program
  In some cases, first-time offenders might be required to complete a behavioral intervention program (e.g., batterer’s intervention) instead of serving jail time.
• If They Are Convicted of Domestic Violence or Harassment
  Many courts mandate counseling or rehabilitation programs when an offender is found guilty of domestic violence or repeated harassment.
• For Substance Abuse Issues
  If alcohol or drugs contribute to the abuser’s behavior, the court may order mandatory rehab or AA/NA meetings to address underlying addiction problems.

Can You Request That They Get Help?

If you believe the abuser needs rehabilitation (for violence, control issues, addiction, etc.), you can bring it up during legal proceedings. However:

• It’s not your responsibility to ensure they get help—that’s on them.
• If they refuse to acknowledge their behavior, rehab won’t be effective.
• Rehabilitation is useless unless they genuinely want to change—and many abusers do not.

Bottom Line:

• Restraining orders are about protection, not rehabilitation.
• Courts may order rehab, but it depends on the case.
• The focus should always be on keeping you safe first.

If they refuse to seek help and keep violating boundaries, stronger legal action—not forced rehabilitation—is usually the best course of action. 💛