the Domestic Violence Distress Signal is a discreet hand gesture used to silently ask for help in situations of danger, particularly in cases of domestic violence, abuse, or human trafficking. It was created by the Canadian Women’s Foundation and gained worldwide recognition, especially during the COVID-19 pandemic, when victims had fewer opportunities to seek help in person.
How to Do the Signal:
- Hold your palm up, facing forward (as if waving).
- Tuck your thumb into your palm (like you’re making a fist but with only your thumb inside).
- Fold your fingers down over your thumb, trapping it inside your hand.
This signal is designed to be subtle so that an abuser may not notice, but someone who recognizes it can take action.
What to Do if You See It?
If you see someone using this gesture:
- Do not react visibly if the abuser is present—acknowledge it discreetly.
- If safe, ask a simple question (like, “Do you want me to call 911?”).
- Call emergency services if you believe the person is in immediate danger.
- If you’re unsure, check in another way (such as texting or asking a yes/no question).
It’s crucial to handle the situation carefully, as confronting the abuser directly can put the victim in more danger.
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