Trauma refers to an emotional or psychological response to an event or series of events that are distressing or disturbing, often exceeding an individual’s ability to cope. Traumatic experiences can be diverse and may include situations such as accidents, natural disasters, physical or sexual assault, combat, or the sudden loss of a loved one. Trauma can have a profound impact on an individual’s mental, emotional, and physical well-being, leading to a range of symptoms and challenges.
Head Games in Emotional Abuse: A Hidden War on Your Mind (A Psychological & Neuroscience-Based Guide to Recognizing the Invisible Manipulation) Emotional abuse isn’t always shouting or insults.Sometimes, it’s the slow, calculated erosion of your confidence.A subtle rearranging of your reality.The feeling of being in a maze you can’t escape — because the walls keep… Read More 🎭 “It’s All in Your Head…”
When an Abuser Controls the Narrative and Shuts You OutA post for anyone who’s been left confused, unheard, and doubting their own truth. You ask a question, and it’s met with silence.You try to clarify something, and you’re told “That’s not how it happened.”You bring up a concern, and you’re met with a sigh, a smirk,… Read More 🌀 “You’re Just Second-Guessing Yourself…”
“I don’t know what’s real anymore.”“I feel like I’ve lost myself.”“I keep second-guessing everything.” These are the quiet echoes of perspecticide — the invisible abuse where your ability to trust your own reality is slowly and systematically dismantled. It’s the kind of trauma that doesn’t always leave bruises, but instead leaves you questioning your very sense of self.… Read More 🧠 Healing From Perspecticide: Learning to Trust Yourself Again
Have you ever doubted your own memory? Felt confused about your emotions? Questioned whether your perspective was valid — even in moments of clear mistreatment? If so, you may have experienced something called perspecticide — a devastating psychological weapon used by abusers to strip away your ability to trust yourself. 🔹 What Is Perspecticide? Perspecticide is the systematic… Read More 🧠 Perspecticide: When Your Reality Is Slowly Stolen — A Deep Dive into the Neuroscience and Psychology of Covert Abuse
Have you ever looked back and thought: “Who was I before all of this?” It’s something I’ve reflected on deeply — comparing my personality from over 30 years ago, before I was subjected to prolonged emotional and psychological abuse, to the person I’ve become now, emerging from that shadow and stepping into healing. As someone trained… Read More 🧠 Personality Through the Lens of Trauma: Who We Were, Who We Became — and Who We’re Reclaiming
For many years, I worked as an HR specialist, trained to understand people — their motivations, communication styles, and unique strengths. It was more than just hiring and performance reviews. It was about reading between the lines, understanding human behavior, and creating environments where people could thrive. Now, as a therapist, that background has become… Read More 🧠 Understanding People Better: How Personality Types and Neuroscience Shape My Work in Therapy & Life
After decades of silence, I finally spoke my truth. I shared my sworn court statement — a deeply personal and detailed account of abuse that spanned years of my life. A story I carried alone for far too long. When I finally found the strength to reveal it, I didn’t know what to expect. But… Read More 🕊️ When Silence Speaks Volumes: Reactions to Truth and Trauma
There was a time I truly thought I wouldn’t survive.Not just physically — but emotionally, psychologically, spiritually.A time when I believed no one would ever believe me.When I thought it was my fault for staying.When I hoped, prayed, pleaded for him to leave, but I couldn’t make it happen.Because no matter what I did, or said, or how much… Read More 💔 When You Look Into Their Eyes and See Nothing…
Have you ever looked at someone and seen nothing but kindness in their eyes? A softness in their face, a warmth in their presence, a quiet passion radiating from within? It’s a moment that can take your breath away — not because of external beauty, but because of what your nervous system is experiencing in that instant.… Read More 💫 When You Look at Someone and All You See is Kindness, Beauty, and Warmth…
There’s something transformative about putting your thoughts and feelings onto paper. It’s not just journaling — it’s an emotional release, a deep conversation with your inner self. In psychology, we call this “expressive writing,” and it has been shown to reduce stress, lower blood pressure, strengthen immunity, and even rewire our brain’s response to trauma.… Read More 📝 Putting Pen to Paper: The Healing Power of Feeling Truly Seen and Loved
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 