Putting someone under excessive pressure when they are suicidal — coercive control as a weapon

Summary When a person is suicidal, pressuring, threatening, shaming, or isolating them to get compliance is not only cruel — it is a form of coercive control that dramatically increases risk of self-harm and suicide. This behaviour exploits vulnerability, amplifies fear and hopelessness, and may be criminal in many jurisdictions. (See legal guidance and evidence… Read More Putting someone under excessive pressure when they are suicidal — coercive control as a weapon

Silencing and Ignoring Abuse

Many famous historical figures have struggled with hidden depression, pain, and abuse while maintaining a public image of success, strength, or happiness. Here are some well-known individuals who endured immense personal suffering behind closed doors: 1. Robin Williams (1951–2014) 2. Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) 3. Vincent van Gogh (1853–1890) 4. Princess Diana (1961–1997) 5. Freddie Mercury… Read More Silencing and Ignoring Abuse

Ignoring Pleas for Help

It’s possible that external influences, such as other family members, friends, or even societal narratives, might shape their perception of the person in crisis. If they hear claims of “attention-seeking” or “manipulation,” they might distance themselves based on these biases.

In blended or complex family dynamics, alliances or pressures can form, affecting how people respond.… Read More Ignoring Pleas for Help

Suicide

Driving someone to suicide through covert coercive controlling behavior is a grave and morally reprehensible act. Covert coercive control involves manipulating and dominating another individual through subtle tactics aimed at undermining their autonomy, self-esteem, and freedom of choice. This behavior can manifest in various forms, including emotional manipulation, isolation from support networks, financial control, and… Read More Suicide