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Reframing

Identify the Negative Thought: Write down the negative thought as soon as you notice it. Be honest with yourself about what you’re thinking, even if it feels uncomfortable.

Example: “I’ll never be able to stay sober; I’m too weak.”

Challenge the Thought: Ask yourself if this thought is entirely true. Often, our negative thoughts are exaggerated or distorted. Consider the evidence that both supports and contradicts the thought.

Questions to consider: “Is this thought based on facts or feelings?” “Have I had successes in the past?”

Write a Positive or Neutral Counter-Statement: Replace the negative thought with a statement that is more supportive, encouraging, and realistic.

Positive counter-statement: “I’ve faced difficult challenges before and come out stronger. Every day I stay sober is a step toward a healthier life.”

Repeat as Needed: Make this a daily habit. Keep a journal where you can regularly challenge and reframe negative thoughts. Over time, you’ll start to notice patterns in your thinking and will be able to counteract them more naturally.… Read More Reframing

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Why Mastery Experiences Build Self-Efficacy

Success breeds confidence: Each successful experience solidifies your belief in your abilities. It tells your brain, “I did it before, so I can do it again.” This is crucial because self-efficacy is largely based on past experiences of success.

Handling adversity builds resilience: When people encounter challenges, overcoming them teaches perseverance. These moments build a belief that, with effort, future problems can be managed, no matter how hard they seem initially.

Practice increases competence: The more you practice and gain experience, the more your skills improve. As your competence increases, so does your confidence in facing similar or even more difficult tasks in the future.… Read More Why Mastery Experiences Build Self-Efficacy

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Mental Toughness

This is often the bedrock of mental toughness. When people believe they have agency over their circumstances and emotions, they are more likely to navigate challenges effectively. It’s not about eliminating negative emotions or hard circumstances, but rather feeling capable of managing them. This locus of control is often associated with reduced anxiety, better stress management, and overall well-being. It’s also tied to emotional intelligence—being able to recognize and regulate emotions is essential to gaining control over how external events affect us.… Read More Mental Toughness

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