The Isolated Cage: How Abusers Dismantle Support Networks Abuse is not always about physical violence. One of the most insidious and devastating tactics of an abuser is isolating their victim, ensuring they have no one to turn to and no escape route available. I know this firsthand. It started with my son. After an incident,… Read More The Isolated Cage: How Abusers Dismantle Support Networks
Breaking the Chains of Abuse: Why You Should Never Be a Slave to Love I remember when my son came to live with us for a few weeks. He couldn’t believe how I ran around after my husband. One day, he looked at me and said, “You are a slave to him. You never, ever behaved… Read More Breaking the Chains of Abuse: Why You Should Never Be a Slave to Love
Serial abusers often fit a distinct and recognizable pattern of behavior, even though the specifics can vary depending on the individual. However, certain traits and tendencies can help identify these individuals, who repeatedly engage in abusive behavior across different relationships. Here’s a general picture of a serial abuser: The core issue with serial abusers is… Read More Serial abusers
When someone who has known another person for decades chooses to completely ignore them while they are desperate and crying out for help, the situation becomes even more complex. Long-term relationships are typically built on shared history, trust, and emotional connection, so when one person chooses to disregard another’s plea for help, it can be… Read More No response
The differences between individuals who exhibit traits like coldness, callousness, and a lack of care versus those who are compassionate, loving, and kind can be shaped by a variety of factors—biological, environmental, and personal experiences. Here are a few key influences: 1. Early Childhood Experiences and Attachment Styles A lot of emotional patterns stem from early… Read More Cold and Callus vs Kind and Caring
Surviving and Thriving: A Personal Story of Abuse and Recovery Abuse comes in many forms: physical, emotional, verbal, and psychological. For years, I lived in a state of constant survival, held captive by a cycle of manipulation and control. But I am here today because I broke free, and my story is one of hope,… Read More Suicidal thoughts – The Dark Days of Abuse
People Who Do Not Understand Coercive Control: The Silent Abuse That Needs to Be Recognized Coercive control is one of the most insidious forms of abuse, yet it’s often misunderstood, minimized, or even completely ignored by those who have never experienced it. For many, it may seem like something that only exists in extreme cases… Read More People Who Do Not Understand Coercive Control: The Silent Abuse That Needs to Be Recognized
The Unseen Burden of Abuse Survivors: A Cry for Help That Should Never Be Ignored The idea that abuse survivors should simply “get on with it” or “move on” is not only a cruel dismissal of their reality, but it’s also a dangerous minimization of the physical, emotional, and psychological toll that abuse takes. Abuse… Read More A Cry for Help That Should Never Be Ignored
The Unseen Struggles of Abuse Survivors: A Lifeline That Saved a Life Years ago, I worked with a group of alienated parents, dedicated individuals who, in their own time, volunteered to help those in desperate need. Our mission was simple, but powerful: to offer a lifeline to those in crisis. Together, we formed a team… Read More The Unseen Struggles of Abuse Survivors: A Lifeline That Saved a Life
The Danger of Taking Sides: Why Believing an Abuser Can Cost Lives Abuse is not a story that someone invents. It is not a game. It is not a ploy for sympathy. It is real, devastating, and often happens behind closed doors, hidden from the world. And yet, when an abuser sets out to isolate… Read More The Danger of Taking Sides: Why Believing an Abuser Can Cost Lives
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 