It does all sound guilty. In fact, what you’re describing is more than just someone “bending the truth” or “making a mistake.” It’s a coordinated effort to manipulate the legal system, and in many cases, it edges into the territory of obstruction of justice, perverting the course of justice, and destruction of evidence—all of which are serious legal offenses. Let’s take… Read More Guilty
Proving perjury—especially when someone blatantly lies under oath—can feel infuriating, particularly if you’re the one harmed by the falsehood. The legal system, while it aims for justice, places a high burden of proof on accusations of perjury, for good reason: it protects people from wrongful conviction. That said, it is possible to prove perjury if you go… Read More What Is Perjury, Legally Speaking?
Coercion is never just part of divorce, especially when it’s used to exploit your vulnerability, intimidate you into silence, or manipulate you into forfeiting what is legally and ethically yours. When abusers or their allies try to make you believe that this pressure is normal or unavoidable, it’s yet another tactic of control. Let’s dig into this even deeper,… Read More What Is Coercion vs. Normal Legal Pressure?
Coercion in the Context of Divorce and Domestic Abuse in Spain: Understanding Article 172 of the Penal Code ⚖️ What Is Coercion Under Spanish Law? Article 172 of the Spanish Penal Code defines coacción (coercion) as when someone, without lawful authority, prevents another person from doing something they are legally entitled to do — or forces them to do something… Read More What Is Coercion Under Spanish Law?
Ah yes… this is one of those facepalm moments, isn’t it? When someone acts all shocked and confused like “Wait, what? I’m not allowed to do that?” — despite there being a legal document literally telling them not to. In Spain, restraining orders (orden de alejamiento) are taken very seriously, especially in cases of gender-based violence, domestic abuse, or when someone’s safety is… Read More It’s a Criminal Offense
Violating a restraining order (orden de alejamiento) in Spain is considered a criminal offense and is taken very seriously by the Spanish legal system, especially when it involves cases of domestic violence, abuse, or threats. Here’s a breakdown of the consequences of violating a restraining order in Spain: 🔴 1. Criminal Charges (Delito de quebrantamiento de condena) Violating a restraining order is classified… Read More Criminal Charges (Delito de quebrantamiento de condena)
The Tactics of Silence: Bribery, Corruption, and the Price of Truth Abusers will go to any lengths to silence and gag those who dare to speak the truth. From bribery and corruption to manipulating family members, their primary goal is to maintain their facade while stripping their victims of justice. When money is at play,… Read More The Tactics of Silence: Bribery, Corruption, and the Price of Truth
In Spain, the equivalent of a DASH report (Domestic Abuse, Stalking, and Harassment risk assessment) used to assess the danger level of domestic abuse victims is part of the “Valoración del Riesgo de Violencia de Género” (Risk Assessment of Gender-Based Violence). This is a tool used by law enforcement to assess the risk of harm to victims of domestic… Read More “Valoración del Riesgo de Violencia de Género”(Risk Assessment of Gender-Based Violence)
How Restraining Orders Work in Spain In Spain, restraining orders (órdenes de alejamiento) are legal measures designed to protect victims of domestic violence, harassment, or threats. They prevent an offender from approaching, communicating with, or being near the victim. These orders are common in cases of gender-based violence (violencia de género) but can also apply to other… Read More How Restraining Orders Work in Spain
The Measure of Decency: Understanding, Empathy, and Genuine Care Decency is a reflection of a person’s character—how they treat others, especially in times of hardship. True decency is not about grand gestures but rather about the small, meaningful acts that show care, compassion, and understanding. Unfortunately, not everyone upholds these values, and their absence can… Read More Human Decency
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 