Moraira.Perth, Australia.Bournemouth.Puerto Banús.The places your daughter and grandchildren lived.The places filled with laughter, warmth, and belonging. And he never came.Not once. Not to visit. Not to share a meal, a beach, a moment.Always an excuse — too hot, too far, too boring, too Benidorm. It speaks volumes. Because in psychology, avoidance is rarely about disinterest — it’s… Read More “When They Never Come: The Psychology of Avoiding What You Love”

There’s a certain kind of cruelty that isn’t loud — it’s symbolic.Ten years ago, Moraira was your dream: sunshine, family, peace.He never wanted to come. He criticized Spain — too hot, too tacky, too Benidorm.He dismissed your joy because it wasn’t his. But now, suddenly, it’s his place.He visits, settles, even claims it as though the dream was always… Read More “When the Abuser Moves to Your Dream: The Psychology Behind Suddenly Wanting Moraira”

Let’s break this down carefully from both psychological and neuroscience perspectives, then compare healthy relationships vs. narcissistic relationships, including practical signs to watch out for. 1. How Narcissists Find a New “Supply” After a Long-Term Relationship In psychology, the term “narcissistic supply” refers to the attention, admiration, validation, or control a narcissist gets from others.… Read More How Narcissists Find a New “Supply” After a Long-Term Relationship

2. When It’s a Red Flag If someone insists on a prenup while simultaneously pushing financial entanglements that benefit them, psychology suggests ulterior motives. Examples: This points to instrumental thinking — treating the partner as a means to an end rather than an equal. 3. Psychological Profile of Someone Who Does This 4. Neuroscience Layer People who exploit financially often show reduced empathy circuitry —… Read More 1. What a Prenup Should Be

Ten months ago, I filed for divorce. What followed was a predictable script: threats, harassment, subpoenas, financial manipulation, and a sudden interest in control tactics disguised as legal action. He offered 10%, threw legal fees like confetti — over €1000 spent fighting over nothing. All for what? To cling onto control. To continue a pattern as… Read More 💥 When Control Fails, the Mask Slips: Understanding Post-Separation Abuse Through the Lens of Psychology and Neuroscience