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A narcissist refers to an individual who exhibits narcissistic traits or has been diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a mental health condition characterized by a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. While many people may display some narcissistic traits, individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder exhibit these traits to an extent that significantly interferes with their relationships and functioning.

“Like father, Like son”

When behaviors like manipulation, dishonesty, or emotional deceit are modeled by a parent, it’s not uncommon for children to pick up those traits—whether consciously or unconsciously. If the father has engaged in similar tactics, the son might have learned that this kind of behavior is acceptable, effective, or even necessary to get what he wants. Family environments where boundaries, accountability, or healthy communication are lacking often perpetuate these dynamics.

That said, understanding where this behavior comes from doesn’t make it any easier to deal with. You’re navigating a situation where both individuals are contributing to the hurt and dysfunction, and it’s likely leaving you feeling trapped or powerless to change anything.… Read More “Like father, Like son”

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Encouraging Estrangement

Being isolated from friends and family by someone who claims to love you is a deeply painful experience that can have lasting consequences. Recognizing the manipulative tactics at play is the first step toward reclaiming your autonomy and rebuilding your life. While the journey back to trust and connection may be difficult, it is possible with the right support, self-awareness, and determination. Healing takes time, but each step forward is a testament to your resilience and strength.… Read More Encouraging Estrangement

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The Inherited Cycle of Financial Manipulation in Families: When Deceit Becomes Tradition

In families where financial manipulation is a common tactic, children often grow up watching and absorbing subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) cues. For example, a child might see one parent lying about finances to a relative or exaggerating needs to elicit help from others. Over time, they come to view these actions as effective or even essential, especially if such behaviors are met with approval or rewarded by other family members. As they grow, they may unconsciously adopt similar approaches, perhaps justifying them as protective measures or as ways to ensure the family’s best interests are met.

Because these behaviors are modeled by the family members a child trusts most, the ethical considerations that might otherwise guide behavior are blurred. Financial manipulation becomes less about dishonesty or deception and more about survival, loyalty, or “looking out for your own.” As each generation mirrors these behaviors, they reinforce a legacy of manipulation and deceit, often without consciously recognizing it as such.… Read More The Inherited Cycle of Financial Manipulation in Families: When Deceit Becomes Tradition

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Living with someone who has Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD)

For many individuals with ASPD, exploiting others to achieve their goals is a common behavior. This can include taking advantage of loved ones financially, emotionally, or physically. They may be highly charming and persuasive, particularly if they’re motivated to get something they want. In personal relationships, this could look like excessive financial dependence, pressuring you into unfavorable agreements, or even taking advantage of shared resources.

Their tendency to exploit others without guilt or remorse can be particularly damaging because it often takes time to realize the extent of the exploitation. By the time you recognize what’s happening, you may have suffered significant financial, emotional, or social harm, making it harder to leave the relationship or re-establish your own boundaries.… Read More Living with someone who has Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD)

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Core Symptoms and Characteristics of ASPD

Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) is a complex and challenging mental health condition that falls under the broader category of personality disorders. People with ASPD often show persistent patterns of disregarding or violating the rights of others, typically starting in adolescence or early adulthood. It’s worth noting that although “antisocial” might sound like someone who avoids social interaction, in this context, it refers to behavior that is actively harmful or exploitative to others.… Read More Core Symptoms and Characteristics of ASPD

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Understanding the Dynamics of Emotional Abuse on Sensitive Anniversaries

Enjoyment in Others’ Pain: A sadistic person may feel a sense of power or satisfaction from your suffering. They might taunt you about your loss to elicit a strong emotional response, feeding off your pain.

Cruel Humor: They may disguise their taunts as jokes, masking their cruelty under a veneer of humor. Statements that belittle your grief might be framed as playful banter, making it more challenging to confront their behavior.

Deliberate Provocation: They may intentionally choose sensitive days to provoke you, viewing your reaction as a source of entertainment or power. This calculated behavior indicates a deep-seated disregard for your feelings.… Read More Understanding the Dynamics of Emotional Abuse on Sensitive Anniversaries

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When Love Turns Toxic: Recognizing Financial and Emotional Manipulation in Relationships

Being on the receiving end of financial and emotional manipulation is a painful and challenging experience. But recognizing the signs is the first step toward reclaiming your autonomy. Remember, genuine love and respect are never conditional on how much you’re willing to give financially. You deserve a partnership rooted in trust, honesty, and mutual support. Stay empowered, be vigilant, and trust that you have the strength to walk away from anything that doesn’t serve you or your well-being.… Read More When Love Turns Toxic: Recognizing Financial and Emotional Manipulation in Relationships

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Covert

In some cases, covert narcissists may escalate their control tactics to include emotional abuse and even physical violence. They view their partner as an object rather than a person with needs and aspirations, and if the partner attempts to stand up for themselves, they may experience explosive or abusive reactions. For the covert narcissist, marriage is a power dynamic where they must always have the upper hand, dominating through manipulation, verbal abuse, and even physical intimidation.… Read More Covert

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Public vs. Private Behavior

Public vs. Private Behavior: In private, they might be abusive, cruel, or dismissive, but in public, they present themselves as loving, supportive, and dedicated partners. This duality is designed to confuse you and make it harder for you to seek help or validation from others.

They may even convince others that they are the “victim” in the situation, turning the tables on you and portraying themselves as suffering from your supposed mistreatment.… Read More Public vs. Private Behavior

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Final Thoughts: True Love Does Not Hurt

Narcissistic individuals often use manipulation tactics like gaslighting to distort reality and maintain control over their relationships. The promise of love and protection can quickly turn into an emotional roller coaster, where hurtful actions are justified, denied, or even twisted to seem like they’re your fault. This cycle of confusion can make it very challenging to recognize their behavior as abusive.… Read More Final Thoughts: True Love Does Not Hurt

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