A Daughter’s Birthday: The Gift of Love, Resilience, and Bonding

Today marks the birthday of my beautiful daughter—beautiful inside and out. Birthdays have a way of pulling us back through time, reminding us of the exact day when a new life entered the world. I can still remember the day she was born, that first moment of holding her, and the flood of pride and… Read More A Daughter’s Birthday: The Gift of Love, Resilience, and Bonding

The Root of the Problem: Fear, Entitlement, and Greed

Some family members see a parent’s decline as an opportunity rather than a time for reflection and connection. They may feel entitled to an inheritance, fearing that a stepparent or other relatives could “take” what they believe is rightfully theirs. This often leads to manipulation, lies, and division—siblings turning against each other, alliances forming, and accusations flying. It’s not about the money itself most of the time; it’s about control, validation, and unresolved childhood wounds surfacing at the worst possible time.

2. The Stepparent as the “Villain”
When there’s a stepparent involved, the narrative often shifts to “they’re taking what should be ours.” The reality is, if a parent chose to remarry and share their life with someone, that person has a place in their heart and possibly their estate. But greed doesn’t acknowledge love—it sees competition. The stepparent is often cast as an outsider, someone to be pushed out, sometimes through legal battles or cruel emotional tactics.… Read More The Root of the Problem: Fear, Entitlement, and Greed

Paranoid Personality Disorder (PPD)

The symptoms of PPD can appear similar to other mental health conditions, particularly psychotic disorders. The critical differentiator here is the persistent, pervasive distrust that exists outside of any psychotic episodes. In schizophrenia, for instance, paranoid delusions might arise, but they occur within the broader context of psychotic features (hallucinations, disorganized thinking). A clinician must determine that these suspicions are not better explained by another mental health disorder to reach a PPD diagnosis.… Read More Paranoid Personality Disorder (PPD)