Key Principles of Heart–Brain Neurodynamics

Let’s dive into the heart–brain neurodynamics—how the heart and brain communicate, influence each other, and regulate physiology, emotion, and cognition. I’ll break it down systematically. 1. Heart–Brain Communication Pathways The heart and brain are constantly exchanging information through several channels: A. Neural Pathways B. Hormonal & Biochemical Pathways C. Electromagnetic Field 2. Heart–Brain Feedback Loops The heart and… Read More Key Principles of Heart–Brain Neurodynamics

1. What is the “Intelligence of the Heart”?

The term comes from heart–brain science, polyvagal theory, and biofeedback research. It refers to the heart’s ability to sense, respond, and influence physiological, emotional, and cognitive states. Key insight: The heart is not just a pump—it is a dynamic regulator of the nervous system. 2. Trauma and the Heart Trauma impacts the autonomic nervous system (ANS): Heart intelligence interventions aim to restore… Read More 1. What is the “Intelligence of the Heart”?

HRV Biofeedback Cheat Sheet for Self-Regulation

1. Tools You’ll Need Tool Purpose Tips Chest strap HR monitor (Polar H10, Wahoo, Garmin) Most accurate HRV measurement Comfortable, wear snug but not tight Smartwatch or ring (Apple Watch, Oura, Garmin) Convenient HRV tracking Best for daily trends, not precise metrics HRV Biofeedback app (Elite HRV, Inner Balance, HeartMath, Kubios) Real-time feedback & guided… Read More HRV Biofeedback Cheat Sheet for Self-Regulation

How Repeated Boundary Breaches Rewire the Brain

(From Safety → Survival → Shutdown) 1. Initial Boundary Breach Event:A limit is crossed (emotional, physical, psychological, financial, or time-based). Brain response: 🧠 At this stage, the brain expects repair. 2. Boundary Is Ignored or Punished Event:The breach repeats. Apologies don’t match behavior. Limits are mocked, minimised, or punished. Brain response: 🧠 Learning begins here. 3. Survival… Read More How Repeated Boundary Breaches Rewire the Brain

🌱🧠 What Recovery Looks Like After Intimidation Ends

This is the part people rarely explain — but it matters most.Recovery after intimidation is real, predictable, and neurological. It doesn’t happen all at once, and it doesn’t mean “forgetting.” It means your nervous system relearns safety. Here’s what recovery actually looks like, stage by stage. 🌱🧠 What Recovery Looks Like After Intimidation Ends Phase 1: Threat Removal… Read More 🌱🧠 What Recovery Looks Like After Intimidation Ends

🧠 ANGER vs GRIEF IN TRAUMA RECOVERY

(Brain → function → outcome) 🔥 ANGER Purpose: protection and containment 🧠 Brain state 🧭 Function after trauma Anger says: “This should not have happened.” That is a healthy early response. 🧍 Behavioural expressions 🧠 Nervous-system effect This is why anger often comes before grief. 🌊 GRIEF Purpose: integration and release 🧠 Brain state 🧭 Function after trauma… Read More 🧠 ANGER vs GRIEF IN TRAUMA RECOVERY

🧠 HOW “I’M ALWAYS RIGHT” LINKS TO NARCISSISTIC DEFENCES

(Defence ≠ disorder) 1️⃣ THE CORE ISSUE IS SHAME, NOT GRANDIOSITY At the centre of narcissistic-style defences is unprocessed shame. Not: The brain builds certainty as armour. 2️⃣ THE NEUROSCIENCE OF DEFENSIVE CERTAINTY 🧠 Brain mechanics Being wrong triggers the same brain response as danger. So the brain says: “Never be wrong.” 3️⃣ CERTAINTY AS A SELF-STABILISER… Read More 🧠 HOW “I’M ALWAYS RIGHT” LINKS TO NARCISSISTIC DEFENCES

When calm unsettles someone

Calm feels threatening to these people because calm removes the very thing their nervous system depends on to feel real, powerful, or regulated. This isn’t metaphorical — it’s neurological. Here’s what’s happening underneath the behavior. 1. Calm Starves Their Reward System For people who provoke reactions, emotional intensity is the reward. Provocation → your reaction → dopamine.… Read More When calm unsettles someone

Immediate nervous system reset

Putting yourself first after disengaging from someone who is dumping distressing information is essential for nervous system recovery. Here’s a structured, neuroscience- and psychology-informed plan for grounding and stabilizing yourself in the days immediately after: 1. Immediate nervous system reset 🔹 Deep breathing 🔹 Grounding with senses 🔹 Body scan 2. Protect your digital space 3. Structure your… Read More Immediate nervous system reset

God’s Waiting Room: Embracing Impermanence and Meaning

“God’s Waiting Room” is a concept that captures a universal human truth: life is temporary, connections are fleeting, and endings — both small and large — are inevitable. While the term itself isn’t formally named in psychology, it resonates strongly across multiple disciplines and philosophies. 1. Existential Psychology Thinkers like Viktor Frankl and Irvin Yalom… Read More God’s Waiting Room: Embracing Impermanence and Meaning