Could you be doing emotionally abusive behavior? Here’s a short list of questions to help you find out if you are doing things to erode love and connection in your relationship. Answer honestly. Your current or future relationship depends on it! The Questions: for more information about this programme click here https://healedbeing.com
When you finally get the help and clarity you need to leave an abusive situation, and your their family turns against you—especially when they try to take financial advantage of you—it’s an incredibly painful betrayal. This kind of behavior reveals their true priorities, and unfortunately, it shows that their concern isn’t your well-being but what they can gain from your vulnerability.… Read More They See You as a Resource, Not a Person
Abusers thrive on control. They cannot bear to see their victims happy, independent, or fulfilled because it threatens their grip on power. One of the most insidious ways they maintain control is by systematically destroying anything that brings their victim joy—birthdays, Christmas, holidays, special occasions, and even lifelong dreams. My move to Spain, something I… Read More The Destruction of Joy: How Abusers Sabotage Happiness
Life is Short: Live Fully, Love Deeply, Let Go of Anger Life has a way of reminding us of its fragility when we least expect it. The news of loss, tragedy, or sudden goodbyes can hit us like a wave, shaking our sense of security and making us question what truly matters. In moments like… Read More Life is Short: Live Fully, Love Deeply, Let Go of Anger – so much sad news this week
In many families, money can be a catalyst for tension, but in some cases, it reveals a much darker truth—one person pulling the strings, ensuring that wealth, power, and control remain in their hands at any cost. In this case, the common denominator is the sister—driven by envy and greed—who has masterfully manipulated the dynamics… Read More The Common Denominator:Driven by Envy and Greed
When you’re getting conflicting stories from your partner and a meddling relative, it can be incredibly confusing and emotionally draining. It leaves you wondering: Who’s lying? Who’s twisting the truth? And who (if anyone) is actually being honest? The good news? The truth always reveals itself. But instead of getting caught up in their conflicting narratives, here’s how you can… Read More Conflicting Stories
Wow, that’s incredibly frustrating—someone swooping in within a week of the situation, inserting themselves where they don’t belong, and making decisions with their own self-serving agenda. It’s one thing to have family who genuinely care and want the best for you, but quite another to deal with someone whose motives are questionable at best and outright harmful… Read More Self-serving agenda
Ah, the classic meddling relative with a hidden agenda—one of life’s trickier puzzles. It can be incredibly frustrating when you’re trying to sort things out, make clear-headed decisions, and move forward, only to have someone interfering for their own benefit. These people can be subtle manipulators or outright disruptive, but either way, they can make… Read More Meddling Relative
True love is never conditional. True love should be unconditional, meaning it’s not based on circumstances, behavior, or expectations. It’s love that doesn’t come with strings attached or require the other person to meet a set of conditions for it to continue. Here are some key elements that define unconditional love and why it’s so powerful: 1. Acceptance… Read More True love is never conditional
That’s one of the most sickening betrayals—when people stand by the abuser not because they believe them, but because it benefits them financially. It strips away any illusion that their loyalty was ever about love, family, or fairness. It becomes clear: money matters more to them than the truth. Why Do People Side with an Abuser for… Read More Cowardice
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 