If someone who knows your ex well sends you a letter describing concerns about your ex’s behaviour, here’s how to handle it safely and appropriately: 1. Treat it as information, not evidence 2. Read and document carefully 3. Do not share the letter publicly 4. Assess immediate risk 5. Prepare a neutral, factual report Important: Avoid adding opinions, assumptions,… Read More Receiver and recorder, not investigator
If a lawyer has been struck off and convicted to the point of imprisonment, and the family continues to rely on their advice or influence, it raises both legal and protective concerns. Here’s what to know and how to approach it safely: 1. Understand the Risk 2. Document Everything Documentation is key for lawyers, courts, and regulators.… Read More Inform Your Lawyer Immediately
If you know a lawyer has been struck off (disbarred, suspended, or otherwise prohibited from practicing) and your ex is continuing to take advice from them, this is a serious concern for your legal, financial, and personal safety. Here’s what you should know and do: 1. Understand the Risk 2. Document Everything 3. Inform Your Lawyer Immediately 4. Protect… Read More Disbarred
You absolutely should inform your lawyer, the judge (via your lawyer), and your psychologist if you believe the family lawyers on your ex’s side have been manipulating matters. This isn’t about accusation; it’s about protective disclosure and record‑keeping. Here’s how and why to do it safely and effectively. Why Disclosure Is Important (and Protective) 1. To Your Lawyer Your… Read More Why Disclosure Is Important (and Protective)
Allanamiento de morada (Trespass / Violation of the Home) 1. What Article 202 protects Article 202 protects the home (dwelling) as a fundamental legal interest, directly linked to Article 18.2 of the Spanish Constitution, which guarantees the inviolability of the home. Under Spanish law, a home (“morada”) is any place where a person lives privately, whether: 2. What conduct is a crime under Article… Read More Article 202 Spanish Criminal Code
Protective measures are temporary legal actions designed to ensure the safety of victims and their children while legal proceedings, including divorce or criminal cases, are ongoing. These are often granted by the Juzgado de Violencia sobre la Mujer (Domestic Violence Court). 1. Types of Protective Measures a) Restraining Orders (Orden de Protección) b) Temporary Custody or Visitation Limits c) Removal from… Read More Protective Measures (Medidas Cautelares) in Spain
A step-by-step guide to help you understand what to expect, what documents to prepare, and what protective measures are available. Step 1: Seek Safety & Legal Support Key Tip: Keep your phone charged and communications secure; avoid confronting the abuser directly. Step 2: Gather Evidence Collect all documentation that demonstrates abuse or harassment: Tip: Organize evidence chronologically… Read More Survivor Roadmap: Divorce Through the Domestic Violence Court (Spain)
MASTER LIST 1. Financial Documents 2. Medical & Health Documentation 3. Digital Evidence 4. Will, Legal, and Estate Documents 5. Police, Legal & Official Reports 6. Witness Evidence 7. Property, Security & Surveillance Evidence 8. Communications & Intimidation 9. Miscellaneous but Critically Important The list goes on
In Spain, your home is inviolable.This is not just a phrase — it is a constitutional right and one of the strongest protections you have as a survivor of domestic violence. 🏠 YOUR HOME = YOUR SAFE SPACE.No one — absolutely no one — can enter without your permission.Not an ex-partner.Not a spouse you’re separated from.Not someone who “used… Read More Your home is inviolable
A demanda de divorcio is a written petition filed with the Family Court (Juzgado de Familia) by one or both spouses, asking a judge to legally dissolve the marriage and decide on related matters such as property division, custody, and financial support. 🧾 Two Main Types of Divorce in Spain ⚖️ What the Lawsuit Includes The petition (demanda) sets out: 👩⚖️ If Abuse or… Read More ⚖️ What Is a Divorce Lawsuit in Spain (“Demanda de Divorcio”)?
