Forgiveness can be one of the most powerful tools in your emotional toolbox, not because it lets the other person off the hook but because it frees you from the hold their bitterness might have on you. Forgiving someone doesn’t mean excusing their behavior or reconciling with them; it means letting go of the anger, resentment, or hurt that ties you to their negativity. Forgive for Yourself: Holding onto anger or resentment keeps you emotionally tied to the person who hurt you. By forgiving them, you break that emotional chain and reclaim your power. It’s about freeing yourself, not condoning their behavior.

Empathy Without Acceptance: Try to have empathy for where their bitterness and anger come from. Understanding that their behavior stems from their own pain doesn’t mean you have to accept or tolerate it. It just means that you see them as human, flawed, and struggling like everyone else.… Read More Understanding the Source of Bitterness and Anger