The Illusion of Success: A Life Built on Self-Interest There are people in life who cultivate an image of success and generosity, yet beneath the surface, their actions tell a different story. Some individuals thrive on the perception that they are successful providers, caring family members, and pillars of their communities. In reality, their generosity… Read More The Illusion of Success: A Life Built on Self-Interest
Grief, especially from losing people to something so relentless, already takes a toll on one’s spirit. And then, to see someone who has caused you so much harm use something like cancer as a defense or manipulation in court, is truly beyond the pale. It’s not only despicable but deeply insulting to use an illness… Read More Despicable
The Two Faces of Vindictiveness: When Bitterness Becomes a Way of Life Some people go through life holding onto every grudge, every perceived slight, and every opportunity to hurt others from the shadows. They wear a mask of civility, playing the role of the charming and agreeable person in public, while behind closed doors, they… Read More The Two Faces of Vindictiveness: When Bitterness Becomes a Way of Life
The Day of Reckoning: When the Truth Can No Longer Be Hidden For years, he crafted a false persona—convincing those around him that he was something he was not. He spun lies, manipulated people, and maintained a carefully constructed image designed to hide the truth. He may have succeeded in deceiving some, but no amount… Read More The Day of Reckoning: When the Truth Can No Longer Be Hidden
The Vindictive Mindset: When Arrogance and Self-Interest Define a Person Some people go through life believing they are superior to everyone else, yet they contribute little themselves. They judge, criticize, and look down on others—except when those people have wealth, in which case admiration suddenly replaces disdain. This kind of personality is not only toxic… Read More The Vindictive Mindset: When Arrogance and Self-Interest Define a Person
Life is Short: Live Fully, Love Deeply, Let Go of Anger Life has a way of reminding us of its fragility when we least expect it. The news of loss, tragedy, or sudden goodbyes can hit us like a wave, shaking our sense of security and making us question what truly matters. In moments like… Read More Life is Short: Live Fully, Love Deeply, Let Go of Anger – so much sad news this week
True love is never conditional. True love should be unconditional, meaning it’s not based on circumstances, behavior, or expectations. It’s love that doesn’t come with strings attached or require the other person to meet a set of conditions for it to continue. Here are some key elements that define unconditional love and why it’s so powerful: 1. Acceptance… Read More True love is never conditional
For over three decades, I listened to my partner and his family’s endless stream of manipulations, lies, and empty promises. I hoped for change. I wanted to believe that one day, their words would align with their actions. But in the end, one undeniable truth remained: actions speak louder than words. My partner often said that… Read More Actions Speak Louder Than Words: A Lifetime of Manipulation and Betrayal
Absolutely not love—not in any form, not in any universe. What you’re describing is manipulation, neglect, and emotional abuse, not love. Real love is about care, respect, and mutual support. It does not leave you feeling abandoned, isolated, or struggling while someone else prioritizes their own interests or image over your well-being. Love Doesn’t Look Like This:… Read More Absolutely not love
In most cases, abusers do not fully confess to their actions—at least, not in a way that is honest, accountable, and free of manipulation. Here’s why: 1. Confessing Would Mean Taking Full Responsibility (Which Most Abusers Avoid) 2. Some Will “Confess” for Manipulation or Sympathy If an abuser ever “admits” their behavior, it’s often part of a… Read More Confessions
