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Who’s Sorry Now?

When greed takes over, it blinds people to what truly matters—love, trust, and integrity. Their desperation often leads to behaviors like:Betrayal of family and loved ones: Money becomes more important than relationships.Short-term wins with long-term consequences: Financial manipulation might work initially, but it often comes back to haunt them.Emotional bankruptcy: Even if they “win” the money, their hollow priorities leave them lonely and unfulfilled.… Read More Who’s Sorry Now?

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Morgan Scott Peck (1936–2005) was an American psychiatrist and best-selling author who wrote the book The Road Less Traveled, published in 1978.

is consistently self-deceiving, with the intent of avoiding guilt and maintaining a self-image of perfection

deceives others as a consequence of their own self-deception

projects his or her evils and sins onto very specific targets (scapegoats) while being apparently normal with everyone else (“their insensitivity toward him was selective” (Peck, 1983/1988, p 105[8]))

commonly hates with the pretense of love, for the purposes of self-deception as much as deception of others

abuses political (emotional) power (“the imposition of one’s will upon others by overt or covert coercion” (Peck, 1978/1992, p298[7]))

maintains a high level of respectability, and lies incessantly to do so

is consistent in his or her sins. Evil persons are characterized not so much by the magnitude of their sins, but by their consistency (of destructiveness)

is unable to think from the viewpoint of their victim (scapegoating)

has a covert intolerance to criticism and other forms of narcissistic injury… Read More Morgan Scott Peck (1936–2005) was an American psychiatrist and best-selling author who wrote the book The Road Less Traveled, published in 1978.

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The Liar’s Motivation

The Liar’s Motivation
People who fabricate such stories often do so to protect their self-image or to avoid taking responsibility for their actions. This can stem from deep insecurity, narcissistic tendencies, or an inability to face the consequences of their behavior.

Enablers in the Family
Family members who pretend to support the spouse publicly but condone or participate in the deception behind closed doors often do so out of loyalty, fear, or a desire to maintain the status quo. This complicity can make the targeted spouse feel isolated and betrayed.

Patterns of Behavior
If this person has behaved similarly in past relationships, it’s a clear indication of a pattern. People like this rarely change unless they recognize their own behavior and actively seek help.… Read More The Liar’s Motivation

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Encountering two-faced hypocrites

Encountering two-faced hypocrites, especially within a toxic relationship or environment, can be incredibly frustrating and emotionally draining. These individuals present one version of themselves to the world—a polished, benevolent mask—while hiding manipulative, selfish, or harmful intentions beneath the surface. Dealing with them requires understanding their tactics and learning how to protect yourself emotionally and mentally.… Read More Encountering two-faced hypocrites

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Beware the miser. 

Transactional Relationships: Every interaction becomes a negotiation. Acts of kindness, support, or generosity are conditional, offered only when there’s clear personal gain.

Emotional Withholding: This person might not just hoard money but also affection, time, or emotional support. They give sparingly, often as a tool to maintain control.

Short-Sightedness: They fail to see that generosity—whether of heart, time, or resources—nurtures relationships and creates a richness in life that far outweighs any monetary value.

Family as Bargaining Chips: The saddest aspect is when even close relationships, such as with family, are treated as opportunities to manipulate or bargain rather than opportunities to care and connect.… Read More Beware the miser. 

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